2008 Human Relations Laboratory Experiencing
Compassionate Community
Looking Back...
Looking back on the Human
Relations Laboratory of 2008
First Thoughts about Human Relations Laboratory 2008 –
“Experiencing Compassionate Community”
Richard Kenagy, Convenor of HRL 2008
Whew! This has been quite a ride,
one that for me began when we chose compassion as a theme for our True
Holidays Celebration last December. I’d like to share some thoughts
after reviewing 22 formal evaluations plus other conversations since Lab
ended last weekend. As a side note to Lab participants, please send in
your thoughts if you have not yet done so as I want to make sure we
improve next summer’s event. A summary of input received thus far comes
from the first question of the evaluation and would be that overall the
Lab met expectations and was a very good experience. In terms of
attendance, we had 67 adults and children for the week with 7 more
adults coming for a day or more. One of these visitors was Greg
Garbarino, “Singer of the Heart” who has been one of our program staff
members in years past. It was wonderful to see him and have he and Joe
Crookston playing together for us!
This year’s theme on experiencing
compassion and learning about compassion focused on a curriculum
developed by John Hoff using The Eight Verses for Training the Mind
from Geshe Langri Thangpa many hundreds of years ago. For myself,
and I heard many others, it has been a powerful learning experience to
choose the humility of seeing others as my teachers, especially seeing
those I experience as unpleasant as being a jewel for me. Please let me
or the community center office know if you would like to read more about
this curriculum. I heard only appreciation for this curriculum and the
work it required of us. There were many comments at the end of Lab about
wishing to continue the study of compassion in this way and the Fall
Program has ways to do this for those interested.
This year we had four primary ways
of learning with groups of people. First was our “circle”, which was for
individual inner work on learning compassion with support from circle
members. Second was a “cluster”, which was a group formed around an
interest or activity such as meditation, ecstatic dance, archery, a tea
house for art work, and traditional cedar basket weaving. Third were
“teams”, which were used to accomplish necessary tasks for the community
at large. These were the “Kitchen Team” (many appreciations went to Amie
Hoff for the heartful experiences she offered and to Barbara Brucker for
the smooth operations), the “Grounds Team” and the “Gardens Team”.
Finally, there were the meetings of the whole learning community both
morning and evening (the latter with children also). Actually, the large
group wasn’t the last learning opportunity of the day, since after the
evening community meeting folks could gather in the Swamp (many
appreciations were given to Pam and Elizabeth Jarrett-Jefferson for this
service to the whole) to relax in conversation and to freely express
themselves to those present with song, dance or verse.
Feedback about these groupings
ranged from how well they functioned in terms of feeling the freedom to
choose from a variety of learning experiences, to being stretched into
learning, to how assignments were well spaced, to not fully
understanding how some worked. The circles and clusters got positive
feedback. Though a relatively small number of people attended the 7-8 AM
meditations each morning (led by Bill Scott, Sue-Marie Casagrande and
Bruce Perler), many spoke of how this group brought their work present
to the larger community in a good way.
Feedback on teams was more uneven
with some positive and some clear requests for more clarity and
consistent leadership. So better orientation and team building for the
teams is an area for improvement next year.
A number of people noted that the
large group was more challenging than other groupings. There was mostly
universal appreciation for the dancing and singing as a group in these
gatherings with a number of folks saying it was difficult to maintain
the fine connection found during the dancing when going to conversation
in the group afterwards. Some noted they were stretched to feel
compassion for the whole and for leaders at these times and to accept
responsibility for the whole community. There was some appreciation for
this learning. On this note, one of the cluster gatherings toward the
end of lab focused in part on this aspect of the social intelligence of
a group, that is, the ability of a group to know itself and monitor its
own moods and mindfullness.
A common theme for groups is a need
for leaders to better orient at the beginning about all aspects of
laboratory learning and the various leadership roles and groups present
during the lab. This will be a focus for next year. This includes
helping others learn terminology and methods of learning. For myself, I
will be filling out my role description, work plan, and check lists with
greater detail and clarity. I’m asking all lab leaders to do the same.
I very much appreciate the folks on
the Lab Leadership Team. These people are John Hoff, Colette Hoff, Joe
Crookston, Dyanne Harshman, Kate Martin, Sue-Marie Casagrande, Amie
Hoff, Irene Perler, Liz Ziebold, Bill Scott, Tod Ransdell, Kirsten
Rohde, Bruce Perler, Leslie Norman, Eric Sieverling, Barbara Brucker,
Pam and Elizabeth Jarrett-Jefferson, Norm Peck, and myself. We have
engaged each other in appreciating and noting areas to be improved with
compassion for ourselves, this team and the learning community. In our
compassion for the whole we welcome your further thoughts for next year
and offer this Fall’s Program.
Questions
Please contact Richard Kenagy at (206) 524 - 4032 or
richard-home@comcast.net
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